Friday, March 16, 2012

Unit 3: Reflections, Goals, and Crime of the Century

Reflections on wellbeing:

I would rate my physical wellbeing at about a 6.  I have done a lot to improve my physical health (wiser diet and exercise habits), but there is still room for improvement.

I would rate my spiritual wellbeing at about a 5.  This is one area I know I need to focus more on and I feel I have much to accomplish in this area.

As for psychological wellbeing, I think I am at about a 6, nearing 7.  I work very hard in this area.  I think my biggest challenge is learning to calm my mind.

Goals:

In the area of physical wellbeing, I would like to tackle the last 12lbs I want to lose.  I have been successful at losing a considerable amount of weight so far, but these last 12 pounds have proven to be a challenge.  I am looking forward to the spring weather, when I enjoy hiking in the mountains and other outdoor physical activities.  I am confident I will reach this goal by the end of this summer.

To improve my spiritual wellbeing, one goal I would like to achieve is to be successful at meditation.  Although I enjoy relation and breathing exercises, I do not feel I have yet achieved a deep meditative state of complete calmness and clarity.

One goal in the area of psychological wellbeing is to improve my skills at mindfulness.  As I mentioned earlier, I still struggle with calming and quieting my mind.  I need to work on staying in the present and letting go of things from the past.   

Activities/exercises for goals:

To achieve my physical goal of weight loss, I plan to get outdoors more often.  I live in the Colorado foothills, which offer lots of great opportunities for physical activity.

I believe that reaching a deep meditative state, per my spiritual goal, requires practice and patience.  I intend to stick with it until I achieve it!

For my psychological goal of improving my mindfulness skills, I intend to continue to use relaxation and self-talk exercises.  As with meditation, this will take time and practice, but I will get there!

The Crime of the Century:

I found this relaxation exercise to progress a bit too quickly for my liking.  I didn’t feel completely relaxed until well into the guided imagery, thus was mostly unsuccessful at envisioning the colors suggested by the speaker.  I would have enjoyed this exercise more if the speaker had spent a couple more minutes with the initial breathing exercises, so that I could have been fully relaxed at the beginning of the guided imagery part.  Then again, perhaps I could have done my own breathing prior to starting the track, and been more relaxed and ready to proceed.   

5 comments:

  1. Unit 3...I see there will be always room for improvement as long as we still take a breath. At times I think we grade ourselves poorly. Others will offer us a batter grade since they have no preconceived notions. K

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  2. Unit 3 -
    I am glad that you were able to get some think out if the relaxation exercise for this week.
    As for your weight loss goal something we have done at my house is picking new recipes (one each week) to try. I have gotten them off line or from cookbooks but this way my family was able to find new tastes they like (and sometimes not so much). It was also a way to see if we liked cooking with things that are not the norm for us as well as looking in different sections of the store to see other options.
    I am sure you will reach your goal~
    Best wishes~ Steph

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  3. Unit 3-
    Hi there. I really identified with your need to learn to calm your mind. Mine likes to go spinning off down rabbit trails and anxieties. Let me know how you fare with some of your strategies. I use a lot of self-talk (hopefully people aren't around because I do talk to myself a lot, haha!), and I also try to get up and get my body going to burn off some of that nervous energy. Let me know what works for you!

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  4. Hi Laura, I agree with K that we may grade ourselves a little to harshly, but we do know ourselves and there is always room for improvement in all of us. I hope you find what you are looking for. I know that I did and it truly has changed my life. You need to find what fits for you spiritually and you will know it when you find it. I wish you much luck in your endeavors.
    Robin

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  5. Hi Laura,

    We do tend to be our worst critics! Congratulations on the wise diet and increased exercise choices and keep up the good work to get to where you want to be! It is a task in itself to keep a good diet and exercise plan without breaking, I unfortunately broke but working on fixing my flaws! You live in Colorado, that is awesome - I hope you use some of that beautiful nature to calm your mind and help with your meditative skills, good luck to you in your journey!

    megan

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